Over the past few days, I have been tending a close friend's BGR issues. The insomnia and frustrations that she has been experiencing sounds so familiar to me. The fact of threading on thin ice, for fear of an argument with her bf and the totally heck care bf brings me back to a year ago.
I am reminded that I broke free from that dumb-ass routine of being the fearful and 'obedient' partner to a totally selfish and self-conceited husband.
As I 'celebrate' my anniversary of being a divorcee on 13th April, I am thankful for the fact that I can live my life fearlessly and do whatever or say whatever I want as long as I don't betray my own conscience. I need not thread on thin ice wondering if my words would spark any arguments or would my sms-es cause an explosion of negative emotions of verbal abuse and emotional abuse.
I am inclined to believe that he is also having a good life as a single person as he once told me that he had enough of me and sick of being married when he craved for single life.
I just wish my close friend all the best and advised her to be careful with her bf as I know he has intention to break off with her sooner or later but he doesn't want to be the 'bad person', thus he would be installing a CCTV to capture her behaviour while he attempts to annoy her and use it against her when mentioning the subject of break-up.
When there is politics in a relationship, it is not called love anymore. When there is an intention to backstab one another, love doesn't exist anymore. Love in this era isn't as simple and everlasting as compared to our parents' or grandparents' era. Sigh.
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