If I Should Die

If I should die anytime from now, I would like the following:

1) I want to be lying in a pink tinted acrylic coffin
2) I want to wear an ivory, tube, ballerina wedding gown.
3) Christian funeral rites
4) Buried
5) Obituary stating that I had lived a brave life. (I feel that I am much stronger than I thought I would be.)
6) If possible, my organs donated to those who need it or for medical research purposes.
7) Tears are allowed at my funeral but they should forever be stopped after my funeral period ends.
8) Any of my ex-boyfriends are allowed at my funeral, except my ex-husband, as I feel that he no longer owes me anything. Vice-versa.
9) In the event that my body isn't 'whole' due to mutilation or bomb blast or plane crash, don't bother having a funeral for me. Just light a candle in memory of me as a form of 'send off' for me.
10) After my death, don't bother remembering my death anniversary. Just remember me by lighting a candle every year on my birthday.

PS: Life is unpredictable. I just wanna to be sure that someone will be able to bring this post of my post-death wishes to my parents, future partner or future kids.