Goat VS Ox

One is shy while the other is more out-spoken
One is 1.85m while the other is 1.72m
One is Chinese while the other is Eurasian
One is below average financially while the other is rich
One is an engineer while the other is a band director cum diving instructor
One is single while the other is divorced with 2 young kids
One is a Buddhist/Taoist while the other is Catholic
One is has driving license but can't afford a car while the other drives
One is doing his Degree but the other is planning to do his Masters soon
One is highly insecure with issues in life while the other is too flamboyant to let anything bog him down
One stays at Bukit Batok while one stays at Opera Estate
One speaks Aussie english while the other speaks Queen's english

Both are not handsome
Both are typical tunnelled-vision men, who can't multi-task
Both are not that the romantic sort
Both are not so vocal of their feelings for me but can figure out that they are interested to progress on with me
Both are highly sex-charged
Both are very egoistic in their own ways
Both don't mind migrating to Australia in future

I have trusting issue, my heart is still healing from being betrayed by a guy who broke his promise + vows towards me and I cannot commit at the moment due to my dangling divorce issues. They understand.
God please choose and show me the right one... Who knows, maybe both are not the one for me even? Time will tell.