Family Drama Part 3 Waiting To Unfold

My brother in law has brought back that female 'colleague' (as he claims) back again. This time, they spent 2 hours sleeping in the room in darkness, while my mother in law and me were in the living room watching TV. We just shook our heads, knowing that drama is about to unfold soon, predicting the same relationship failure that would proceed.

Really don't understand why my brother in law can't just bring home, a proper and decent woman? Every woman he chooses is from bad to worst. First he married a psychiatric & depressive woman, then, he married a PRC woman, whose main motive was to get a PR-ship status & lead a tai-tai lifestyle, now, he brings home another woman, who seems like a Malaysian and doesn't seem to know how to portray decency.

This time, the speculations is that this woman wants a PR-ship status and have a roof under her head, without forking out a single cent. Firstly, my brother in law is turning 35 this year and he has made plans to buy a second hand flat from HDB and live on his own. However, as he is a MCP, he needs a woman to tend to the household chores of the house, cook his meals, do his laundry and take care of his needs to play mahjong whenever and however late he wants. So what a better than to get a woman who would provide free of charge service for him. All he needs to get grant this woman whatever she asks for and she would do according to his biddings. Anyway, to him, he has nothing to lose, as long as he doesn't give that woman ownership of the house. Perhaps, he doesn't even have the intention to marry this woman, all he wants to make use the woman like a 2nd mother to attend to his basic needs of food, clean laundry and tidied house.

Anyway, I have brought this matter up for discussion with my husband and we have concluded that:
1. None of us are in the position to advise or enlighten the foolish brother of potential relationship failure again for choosing this woman. In past, his mum and relatives did warn him about marrying the PRC woman, but he choose to defend her aggressively saying that everyone was biased against his future wife and still chose to marry her amidst all disapproval.
2. Neither of us are in the position to 'approve' or 'disapprove' this relationship when the mother is mum herself and chooses to be oblivious of her own son's mistake.
3. As long as that new woman doesn't get us involve or affect us in anyway, we should not bother about them and leave them be.
4. If it comes to one day, this woman decides to move in and stay with this family in Sengkang, I have the choice to move back to my parents' place until our new house in Punggol is ready for moving in.
5. The brother's matter is none if our business and concern. Hence, if he chooses to make the same mistake of marrying a woman with ulterior motives, that is his own life and path that he chooses on his own free-will.



CASE CLOSED WHILE WE JUST PLAY BY EAR AND SEE WHAT OR HOW THE NEXT DRAMA WOULD UNFOLD + END...