After much consideration, I decided to let the wedding continue.
Reasons:
- Save our parents' and our face.
- He also loves me and also feels that he wants the wedding too as he still has that feelings for me.
- It is so near to the wedding date already, kind of too late to back-out or postpone.
- Lots of effort and cash has been pumped in for the wedding, so kind of wasted it is cancelled.
- Since, I was the one who created the mess years ago, I must live with the aftermath of it no matter what.
- Most importantly, we still do love each other. That should be sufficient enough to carry on the wedding.
Just like what one of friend said to me, as long as he loves u truly and still showers you will other forms of intimacy like kisses and hugs, sex ain't crucial.
I must be determine to prove that a sexless marriage will still be a fulfilling marriage.
5 comments:
that's good to hear...
u probably didn't read my comment for ur previous post, or u don't agree with me, but then i want to clarify cuz i hope u are happy and make sure u really have chosen the right guy k...
looking forward to see happy tears at ur wedding!
no, i read your comments to the previous post and had nothing to say or reply.
anyway, i have already accepted my fate in never being really happy in love, always bound to have some sort of upsetting events to affect it.
cya at my wedding... no need invitation card rite? haha!
hmmm... no invitation card i won't go woh... hahha... i'm very realistic one... :p
ok
den update me ur latest address, my dear...
my address never changed ah... if u want it i can still sms u...
hahaha... i was just joking there u know right... ? ;)
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