Pride VS Love

I have learnt to always choose pride over love. Love can betray you but your pride will always guard you.
I won't never allow another man to tear down my pride ever again. If he really treasure and cherish me, I has to give in to my pride and not attempt to over-rule mine.
Of course, I would also be mindful of his ego and pride as a man. I wouldn't bash him up un-necessarily in front of his family and friends. I shall leave any unhappiness to be settled when in private.

In my last failed marriage and relationship, especially towards the final few years, I had to lower myself as well as my pride to accommodate to his growing ego. I had to be submissive to his needs, wants and demands. That was the power of my love for him.

Currently, I am in a marriage with a guy who loves me more than I do love him. So I am cautious not to make the same mistake as I did to be submissive and allow him to rule over me, neither will I be overbearing towards him. So far, it is working out well and hopefully, it would last.