Who Should One Love?

What are the qualities that a female would want in their ideal partner:
- stable high-flying career
- good income or high earning power
- drives a car
- owes his own apartment/place
- handsome
- sauve
- tall
- sexually enticing
- good character + personality
- caring towards her
- loves her a lot
- willing to spend on her
- able to provide her wants + luxury
- time to be there for her whenever she needs him to be around her
- able to ferry her to and fro work

But how many of us stopped to think:
Q1) For someone to be on a high position of the corporate ladder, he must have backstabbed many people or curry-favoured his bosses or superior? Hence, doesn't that contradict the good personality criteria?
Q2) For someone to have a high earning power and good income, he must spend lots of time at work or for work trips. Money doesn't drop from the sky.
Hence, doesn't that not qualify for the 'able to spend time with her whenever she needs him to'?
Q3) Even if he is rich now, that doesn't guarantee him to be rich forever. He may even be his own boss but that doesn't mean his business will never go bust.
Q4) For someone who is able to so perfect, what makes you think that you will be able to match to his expectations? I am for him to be so perfect, he will probably or likely have very high standards for his ideal partner too. Would he even want to settle down to be in a committed relationship?
Q5) What happens if a guy doesn't have the physical qualities that you are looking for, but has all the non-tangible qualities, such as great personality, good character, loves and cares for you a lot? Do you outcast him?
Q6) God is fair and will never make someone so perfect. So what happens if you meet someone not so perfect? Does that make him any less human?
Q7) What if such a perfect person is someone of the same sex? Does that mean you can accept her as a partner for life and love her the same way that you would love a man?

Ponder on. I have questioned myself and answered myself.