Chaotic January 2015

The past few weeks has been quite upsetting and stressful for me:
1) My new house would not be ready for me to move in as expected on 29 Jan 2015
- current owner's BTO is not ready for him (he won't have keys till 6th Feb)
- hence, current owner would only be able to start his own renovations for his BTO in Feb and would be completed by end March.
- he has asked for to extend his stay in the current house, which is legally mine w.e.f 29 Jan 2015, until 7th March.
- he used the reason of being homeless with his two young kids (1 & 3 yr old), elderly mum of roughly 70 years and a wife, to gain our sympathy.
- he also made his agent pay for his lodging from 7th March until end March as his agent had mis-communicated some vital information during the sales transaction between us, the buyers and him
- he refused to pay any compensation for the extension as my housing agent was also partially at fault for being part of the mis-communication.

2) My dad and I are having cold war due the argument we had in Dec 2014
- he is behaving childishly by not talking to me nor even giving me any form of eye contact
- he is being stubbornly in denial of his mistake for being unreasonable with me, although he had verbally acknowledged it during the argument.
- he rather ruined the parent-child relationship than to give up his friendship with a friend who owes him nearly SGD 50K (out of which, 10K was supposedly funds for my tertiary studies).
- he rather take up bank loans than to give up his money consuming hobbies of Karaoke, learning the Er-Hu and Toastmaster Course
- I am not sure if I should still submit his name as my witness for ROM, although my mum insists that he will still be my witness as agreed before the argument happened.

3) Work life is hectic
- it seems like everyone is dependent on me and now I have to even manage the business of GS, when I have already been transferred out from that clinic since Sept 2014.
- hence, it feels like I am running the administrative works of two clinics (GS & ENT) for the same miserable pay.
- my colleagues are also getting lazier, one addicted to Korean Drama on her iPhone and the other immersed in her own family + financial issues.
- my manager is also becoming more reliant on me to settle any maintenance works for the ENT equipment that are becoming spoiled or less usable.

4) I am doing F.O.C tuition for a Primary 6 kid every Sunday
- kid's parent only found out his sliding grades after his P5 final year examinations and were too poor to afford to have tuition for all his subjects.
- hence, my fiance's mum, had asked me to help for his English PSLE.
- it started off as a trial but now it seems like I have unknowingly committed to a weekly FOC tuition session until his PSLE in Sept 2015 or Oct 2015
- every Sunday from 2-6pm I would be doing this volunteer tuition for nothing in exchange. 
- can't bring myself to broach the subject of payment as I also understand his parents' are not doing well. (His mum is a masseuse and the dad a hawker.)

5) Financially I am saving up for my future furnitures and electrical appliances
- less shopping
- less buying luxury stuff
- less self-rewards
- more stress about money being 'never enough'
- more stress about the renovation loan that I would be taking to furnish and build my/our home
- all my bonus and savings has gone into ROM preparations, so practically I am re-saving up again.



Haiz.., hopefully everything I have sacrificed for and my soft-hearted character would pay off soon. I just want serenity, peace and stability in my life.