Love should be pure and simple. It should not be based on social status, richness, materialistic idealisation, external beauty or ability to show off to others.
Sadly, not everyone understands that... To some, love is just an emotion and marriage is based on a rash decision, hence, the increasing rate of divorce. In the eyes of some people, love is just a game or a bet they made with friends, peers or family members. That explains the norm of breaking-up over trivia issues.
Not many married couples would truly understand the meaning of love and marriage. They fail to remember their wedding vows to stay united as one in times of thick and thin, in sickness or in health, for better or worse, to cherish and to honour, to remain faithful and cherish the convenant of a marriage till death do them apart.
Some couples even forgot the reason of why they fell in love in the first place and what attracted them to their spouses initially. They then leave the marriage mundane or end up divorcing due to external temptations.
Such a pity...
I believe that is also probably why people force themselves to never fall in love ever again due to bad experiences in previous failed relationship/relationships. To make matters worse, they witness failed relationships and marriages, which further affirms their idealisation of true love being nonexistent.
I am a believer of true love but yet I don't trust it to happen to me. Only time will heal my old wounds to allow me to trust in true love happening to me again...
Tsk Tsk Tsk.
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