Life Lessons... I'm Still Learning As Days Goes By

As my life continues, I am learning new lessons whenever an event happens to me or around me that impacts me directly...

1) Never make mistakes in life. This includes loop-holes for people to take advantage of you. 
2) Mistakes made may be paid/compensated for dearly.
3) It is good to remain humble when a mistake been made by you.
4) There is always something called Karma. 
5) What you are doing is watched by God above, who will likely to punish or reward you based on your actions.
6) You may not get to watch Karma being done or even witness the 'punishment', but it is always good also hear about it, even you don't know about Karma being served, it is comforting to know that God will take 'revenge' on your behalf.
7) Sometimes, it doesn't pay to be kind. People will also take advantage of your kindness and mistaken your civil mannerism as weakness.
8) People will only take you seriously if you prove to have the upper hand in life.

Being nice also get bullied. Being nasty also get called a bitch. Being neutral also people try to treat you like a push-over. So ultimately, be true to yourself and conscience is the best.

Being Called A Bitch Is A Compliment

A bitch is a female dog
A dog barks
Barks come from trees
Trees are part of nature
Nature is beautiful

Thus, being called a bitch means you are being complimented as beautiful. Hence, no need to take offense next time if someone calls you a bitch.

*like real* Try calling me a bitch and I will definitely bitch - slap the living hell out of you...

Au-Naturel

Came across this MTV and song by Colbie Caillat called 'Try'.
It is meant for all woman out there, telling them to be themselves and that it is not necessary for them to put make-up on or to try so hard to achieve a slim figure so that they would be labelled as pretty or socially acceptable.

The truth is that I believe that every woman would like to be accepted for their natural looks: without make-up, hairy legs and armpits, flat chest, fat hips, bulging tummy, unruly hair or even balding head, short statue and lastly, un-manicured or un-pedicured self. However, it is the society that does not accept woman in their natural self without any nasty comments or gossiping.

Think about it:
- if a woman comes in well-dressed for a job interview but without make-up versus a woman who comes in well-dressed and with light make-up on, who do you think will likely get the job (presuming both of them are equally qualified)?
- if a woman goes out in a sleeveless top and shorts unshaven, bearing her hairy armpits and legs, what would people do? 'Stomp' her or post it on social media with hurtful captions as well as comments.
- if a flat-chested woman with bikini and a woman with fake boobs on a beach, which one do you think would get more positive attention?
- a flabby woman wears bikini versus a slim woman wearing bikini on the beach, which one would be getting mocking looks from others?

Thus, it is sad but the truth is that our society has yet to come to 'maturity' to accept au-naturel woman. So until that happens, women would still seek plastic surgery to alter their bodies, diet themselves, spend time on putting make-up, wear heels to achieve the height they desire, spend loads of money on facial care products as well as cosmetics, spend their time working out to achieve that body of models, spend hours shaving and doing mani-pedicure. Sigh... And yes, I am one of those woman except that I have given up dieting and taking pills to slim down, plus I am too poor to afford plastic surgeries.

PS: Your man/husband/fiance/boyfriend will say it is fine with them when you reveal your au-naturel look or self but honestly, they will still mind somehow if you go out with them without 'beautifying' yourself. Trust me on this. Man likes taking beautified girlfriend/fiancee/wife/woman out and 'show off' to the rest of the world just to boost his manly ego that he is capable in finding a beautiful and perfect woman to be his possession.

I Can Be A Bitch If You Cross My Limits

You are 85% Bitchy, so you are a Mega-Bitch. You are one scary bitch! I sure as hell ain't gonna cross you!

I admit that I can be bitchy and nasty if you happen to irritate me or infuriate me, but that doesn't mean that I can't be nice. How I treat you depends on how you treat me. Isn't that alike for most? I have never seen anyone being nice to someone who is nasty, neither have I seen anyone being nasty to someone who is nice to them.

Being in the service line, I have met many kinds of customers, some who are humble despite being rich and enjoying a high social status, and there some who thinks that you are almighty just because they can afford to see a Private Specialist and pay for the services provided in a Private Hospital. I have also came across people who thinks that just because they are given authority, they can abuse it as when they pleased. I believe that world is made up of different characters and personalities. However, do not forget that there is also something called Karma and Retributions. What goes around, comes around. You can do evil or unpleasant things but guilt as well as fear of being ill-treated will always be at the back of your mind. 

I always believe that I have a Guardian Angel, who is all prepared to attack anyone who treats me unjustly and will always serve Karma on my behalf. So be nasty to me and good luck to you. It is either I will serve you with my bitchy-side or Karma will be served to you on my behalf...

+winks+