Whatspp Message From Me, To Someone

Dont mind my lengthy whatsapp message at such a wee hours of the morning, but I feel the need to share this realization with you, my dearest pal cum bestie...
You know we often ask ourselves what kind of guy is suitable for us and the kind we r dating will be the one we can trust in?
This logic just came to me after a little shedding of tears due to the recall of how that jerk had betrayed my 12yrs of love with just a welt of divorce papers.
The suitable guy for you is akin to a pair of shoes. Everyone's feet is different: different structure, size, venous positions, skin texture and curvature of the sole.
Thus, the suitable guy would be like a good pair shoes, fitted for you: no need to squeeze in, no need to force the shoes to accommodate to your foot, comfortable and yet fitting.
Of course, after wearing the new pair shoes for the first few long hours, there are bound to be some aches (arguements) and maybe small blisters (hiccups causing tears to your eyes), right? But do we throw away that pair of shoes? Depending on the price of shoes you paid for and if u can still trust the shoes to give u the ultimate comfort u desire, we make the decision to throw the shoes away or to try to break into the shoes again. 
Let's say, we don't throw the shoes again due to some reasons and eventually managed to break into the shoes comfortably now, even managing to get a little space to wriggle the toes, we r happy with the shoes and will be more inclined to wear the same pair of shoes ard as long as the shoe serves its purpose and doesnt spoil on us.
Same for our relationship and our man. We will know if he is the one after a few weeks or months depending on how frequent and long u pa-tor. If he fits u snuggly, afterall, den he is the one for u.
PS: Cinderalla didnt break her glass shoes/slippers (but Disney didnt say if she got corns or blisters wearing them). She still found her Prince Charming using that glass shoes/slippers.

Once the shoes is more or less comfortable for u and friction wears off, u bring it the cobbler to get new soles or heels right? Same, the occasional hiccups and renewal r/s post argument is the change of soles or heels.
Marriage is a total different thing from this shoe analogy...
Just bear in mind, at times u may also thrown tantrums at ur shoes for too wet after wearing it in the rain and dont wear them for the next few days while it dries. I am sure you won't throw your shoes away just because it is damp or wet right? (Same for cold wars, so dont toss your relationship out of the window so quickly due to arguements ending in cold wars)