In summary:
- PRC woman let my hamster out and let it go missing
- Refuses to admit to it
- All evidence is against her everyone is 'siding' her saying no eyewitness
- A quarrel breaks out between my husband and me
- His father had to get involve and tell a lie so that I would think that he was the one who let out the hamster. However, when confronted and proven that he was lying to side the PRC woman, he was left speechless.
- His father mocked at me saying that I am childish to be making a big fuss over a lost hamster and all I had to do is just simply buy a new one.
- I decided to move back to my parents' place.
- My husband decides to follow me as he could understand my fury and frustrations.
- As I was shifting the bag to pack the stuff back, the mother jumped to conclusion that I had hit her son due to a loud thud when the bag dropped on the floor and shouted at me thinking that I had hurt her son.
- When she realized that she had accused wrongly, she didn't apologize.
- My husband told her we are moving to my parents' place, she started chasing us out of the house by asking us to leave and get lost.
- She told my husband to leave me and never to contact me.
- She also told me never to step into their house ever again and I am not welcomed in their house.
- In the end, my husband surrendered his house key and left his home with me.
Now, he is one grouchy and grumpy man. Trust me, he would go back to his mum soon (he is a mummy's boy and is close to his mum) and my marriage would be over all thanks to his mother. I am pretty sure she would try her best to brain-wash him to divorce him and to leave me. She would use her 'drama' of crying as well as wanting to commit suicide to win her son back to her side. Thus, I would soon be back to square one again, after much drama and patience to salvage my marriage. Congrats Amelia nice try to maintaining your marriage painstakingly only to end up with a divorce in the end. *Haiz*
Anyway, well, let's say if he really does leave me or divorce me because of his mum's brain-washing, I would say he is not worth being my husband to protect me as he would not be able to differentiate who is in the right and who is in the wrong. On the other hand, some may say: you could have many spouses in your life but only one mother.
2 comments:
wah... what an episode!
first of all, sorry about ur hamster! hopefully it is alright... probably found a good owner or something.
and i will tell u don't be too negative and jump to conclusions just as yet. surely if ur MIL has eyes or a heart she'll know who is a good DIL. just let everyone calm down first.
and i hope jeff will make wise decisions too. and can differentiate the right from the wrong
very drama hor???
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