1) Does it mean that once a couple has known each other for a old time, romance also grows older and slowly dies off?
2) Is marriage really the tombstone of love and romance?
3) Does it mean that a romantic husband is a drama husband?
Well... this is the theory of my husband whom I have known for 8years and married for 2 years... He is so unromantic and even has forgotten how he proposed to me on 10 Sept 2005. He calls that wu liao. He says holding the customary marriage is just another step after ROM. He states that saying 'I love you' or 'I Miss You' is too dramatic for a couple who has already known each other for a long time.
Guess, love is not just based on romantic gestures anymore, it is how he is willing to take on his responsibility as a husband and the way he plays his role as a husband..
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1 comment:
Ahhh. These are the questions I often wondered myself.
Been together with my husband 13 years, married 6.
He always wondered why I "needed" romance when I already "know" he loves me. I think they just are not chemically inclined to this after marriage. He tries though.
It's all give and take. I don't have much advice for you other than you are not alone! Hang in there, it does get better. =)
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