你之后的我

你之后的我学会更爱自己
你之后的我学会比过去更幸福
你之后的我学会爱一个更会珍惜,爱护,心疼和体贴我的丈夫
你之后的我学会做一个没有你但能更开心的女强人

Broken Vow

PS: TO THAT FELLOW WHO BROKE HIS VOWS AND MY DREAMS OF EVERLASTING HAPPINESS DOES EXIST....

Tell me her name
I want to know
The way she looks
And where you go
I need to see her face
I need to understand
Why you and I came to an end
Tell me again
I want to hear
Who broke my faith in all these years
Who lays with you at night
When I'm here all alone
Remembering when I was your own
[Chorus:]
I'll let you go
I'll let you fly
Why do I keep asking why
I'll let you go
Now that I found
A way to keep somehow
More than a broken vow
Tell me the words I never said
Show me the tears you never shed
Give me the touch
That one you promised to be mine
Or has it vanished for all time
[Chorus]
I close my eyes
And dream of you and I
And then I realize
There's more to life than only bitterness and lies
I close my eyes
I'd give away my soul
To hold you once again
And never let this promise end
[Chorus]

Lessons Learnt In Certain Aspects of Life

1) The level of education of person does not necessarily equate to his/her manners and attitude towards others.
2) The physical outlook of a person isn't as important when choosing a lifelong partner. Personality, character and his/her ability to commit to the relationship is far more important.
3) Saying wedding vows are touching but the ability to fulfil them in the long run without regrets are more worth moving tears for.
4) Being married is one thing but being committed in a marriage is more worth thinking about.
5) There is no need to have many friends, just a few close friends who are willing to be for there when you need them the most is more worth having.
6) Having a husband who loves you more than you love him is much better than having a husband who is rich but doesn't have time to spend with you.
7) Work will never end. Going home to a loving home and family is worth more than slogging your life out.
8) Average lifestyle is simplicity at its best. There are some things in life that money can't buy.
9) Being divorce is a social stigma but leaving a spouse who had never treasured or cherished you is definetely worth all those belittling eyes.
10) Marriage is created by the hands of two people, so is divorce. Hence, when a divorce happens, both husband and wife are equally to be blamed and not just one person.

What Would I Do?

What would I do if I meet you on the streets?
I would probably ignore you and pretend that I didn't see you.

What would I do if you ever became one of my patients?
I would get another colleague to attend you and serve you.

What would I do if I had to make a decision between letting you die or to save your life?
I would save your life and then walk away.

What would I do if I had found out that you had remarried?
I wouldn't even give a damn, for I too, have remarried and lead a happier life now.

What would I do if one day I found that you had died?
I would say 'God bless and may your soul rest in peace'.

What would you do?

Welcome 2 The Family

Name: Charcoal
Age: 6-8 weeks

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幾米長城 - 娛樂分享區 - 沒什麼事是放不下的，痛了，你自然就會放下

Who Should One Love?

What are the qualities that a female would want in their ideal partner:
- stable high-flying career
- good income or high earning power
- drives a car
- owes his own apartment/place
- handsome
- sauve
- tall
- sexually enticing
- good character + personality
- caring towards her
- loves her a lot
- willing to spend on her
- able to provide her wants + luxury
- time to be there for her whenever she needs him to be around her
- able to ferry her to and fro work

But how many of us stopped to think:
Q1) For someone to be on a high position of the corporate ladder, he must have backstabbed many people or curry-favoured his bosses or superior? Hence, doesn't that contradict the good personality criteria?
Q2) For someone to have a high earning power and good income, he must spend lots of time at work or for work trips. Money doesn't drop from the sky.
Hence, doesn't that not qualify for the 'able to spend time with her whenever she needs him to'?
Q3) Even if he is rich now, that doesn't guarantee him to be rich forever. He may even be his own boss but that doesn't mean his business will never go bust.
Q4) For someone who is able to so perfect, what makes you think that you will be able to match to his expectations? I am for him to be so perfect, he will probably or likely have very high standards for his ideal partner too. Would he even want to settle down to be in a committed relationship?
Q5) What happens if a guy doesn't have the physical qualities that you are looking for, but has all the non-tangible qualities, such as great personality, good character, loves and cares for you a lot? Do you outcast him?
Q6) God is fair and will never make someone so perfect. So what happens if you meet someone not so perfect? Does that make him any less human?
Q7) What if such a perfect person is someone of the same sex? Does that mean you can accept her as a partner for life and love her the same way that you would love a man?

Ponder on. I have questioned myself and answered myself.