First Post of 2021-Lunar New Year Day 3

I would like to start the post wishing all that celebrates Lunar New Year aka Sping Festival aka Chinese New Year, a Prosperous year of the Ox ahead and Blessed 2021 With Much More Joys than 2020.

The past 6 weeks of 2021, has just gone by like that. But lots of emotions that I have been reflecting on...

1) My own divorce that had indirectly inspired my cousin to finally leave her husband, whom she had been married for about 17 years. She had enough of his infidelity and she is currently expecting a baby in April this year with her live-in bf. She is more worried of what our relatives in Sg may judge or say about her situation. So I told her that as long as she is sure about this guy, why bother what the gossipy relatives may say, its her life not theirs. Just like me, when I first decided to date my current husband, my parents, especially my mum, was not supportive of the relationship, constantly making unfair judgement about him based on his looks. However, now she realizes that I am happier person being with him and he is equally filial towards her. They now get very much along and I frequently enjoy our dinner as a family, chitting and socialising. (Something that I didn't get when I was with my ex-husband.) 

2) I had to deal with training 2 new staffs after receiving news of resignation of 2 staff. Dealing with an insecure newbie was really tedious, however, she is slowly gaining her confidence to deal with clinical administrative work. Then another staff has the experience in a private GP clinic, so she initially thought she knew it all but realized that private specialist sector can be more stressful, demanding and challenging, hence, her attitude is more tamed now.

3) My autoimmune has been more subdued. But of course, I still have those ulcer and abscess recurring monthly along with my menstrual cycle. Just that I am more about to cope with the flares with medications and self-psychology, instead of wallowing in self-pity. I kinda feel that this is gonna be a part of me until I die. Something that I have got to live with. So there isn't anything much I can do about hating or dreading it, as those negative feelings that makes which flare feel worse.

4) Did my prayers to 太岁 yesterday and to Rahu. Hopefully my 2021 would be more smooth-sailing than 2020. No more bad news to my health, no more work crappy politics, no more worries about crazy neighbours complaining of ceiling leakage once I settle my renovations probably during mid-end March.

That's so far my updates for past 6 weeks of 2021. Or rather my gripes and rant of my life so far in 2021. So till I blog again... Cya!