First Post of 2016

I wouldn't start my first post by ranting or updating my 2016 so far...
I would rather start my 2016 with revelations that I had:
1) Life is unpredictable. One moment someone can be healthy and mobile, next moment he/she can have a fall, land up in hospital with a hip fracture and therefore, bed-ridden. The QOL just decreased overnight.
2) You do not need a complicated life to be happy. Just as long as life is stable with sufficient finances to stay alive and enough to indulge in occasional treats or feast, that is good enough. I had enough of ups and downs to understand that stability is a blessing in life. I don't crave for any richness or luxury items. I just want simplicity and stability.
3) The most important thing of a woman is to find a guy who loves her more than he loves himself. It doesn't really matter of the woman loves him as much as he does. The vital point is that he must dote her and respect her more than she does for him. In that way, she would be happy and satisfied. It is useless to love a man so much but he doesn't appreciate it neither does he want to commit himself to her for the rest of his life. A man's heart is stronger than a woman's. Hence, he can take the heartbreak better should the love fails. A woman's heart would melt easier, thus, she can learn to love and accept the man as long as he remains in love and faithful to her.

Am I blessed to be divorced and found someone who loves me more than I do for him? Perhaps so. Maybe you have to go through hell to appreciate little things in life. Maybe you have to be put through shit before your eyes are opened to other avenues in life, which you were blinded before. Maybe you have to experience intense pain before you gain the strength to accept the things you can't change.