伟大的女人

Part 1 Question:
Ladies, if your businessman husband was found cheating on you years ago (behind your back, of course), his mistress then cheated his money and ran away with another man. Now, your husband is back in Singapore and down with a rare form of cancer which slowly eats into his brain and hence he is losing his motor and speech function day by day until he dies. Would you be magnanimous enough to take him back and care for him until the day he dies?

My Answer:
I am not sure myself but I sure will be very bitter and upset for a moment when the truth of his affair surfaces and may not consider taking him back. However, now that he is sick and dying, the compassionate part of me would over-right my rational thoughts and hence, I may consider taking care of him until he dies, afterall, isn't that what is stated in the vows of marriage: in sickness and in health, I shall not forsake you.

Part 2 Question: During the period of time that you are caring for him, he is constantly ventilation his frustrations at you, ranting at you and even verbally abusing you. Not only that, he accuses you of having an affair behind his back. (Mind you, he is still very much alert and rational.) Would you now scream back at him for false accusation when he is the one who has let you down in the first place? Would now forsake him and leave him at a hospice care as an inpatient and wash your duties as a wife off to care for him?

My Answer: I may scream back at him and even dump him in a hospice inpatient care as I have low threshold for such ungratefulness. However, I may still go to the hospice to visit him but I guess by then love is no longer be present.

Congrats!

To my lost ex-close friend, Ky: Congrats! I know I am a bit late as you got ROM-ed last year Nov. Once again, congrats and may your marriage be blissful...

PS: If you ever read this post, I really am glad that you found that special one for you and stay happy 4ever. God Bless...

Post Valentine's Day Dinner

Husband's desktop decided to crash on him and we went to Sim Lim with my dad to buy a new lappie for him... Yes, he finally owns a laptop of his own, so no more bugging me to borrow mine... *evil laugh*
Went to a HongKong Cafe down Tampines 1 for post v.day celebration dinner. No flowers this year but he got me a Aristocat pillow and Stitch blanket as present. Ok, he is forgiven for the no flowers afterall...
Dad would be leaving for Jakarta on 1 March 2010 to start his new job and won't be back until at least 6mths later (if he is successful over there), thus, mum would be alone in Singapore. He has asked me to accompany her more often. I wish I could! Not that I want to be labelled un-filial but I really can't get along with her. I can't tolerate her temper and attitude. I know she is my mum afterall but I have got my limits too. No way will I give in to her nonsense and bad-temper attitude. I have unsettled grudges with her too. I have unresolved issues to deal with too...
Haiz... just hope she will learn to be more mellowed once my dad has left her for Jakarta. Hopefully, she will see that she has no one else left except me to fend for her and hopefully she won't be so aggressive towards me...

No CNY Mood

It is friday and tommorrow is CNY eve, normally as per other years before, I would be very excited about CNY. However, this year, I feel it like a normal day. Although I have bought my CNY clothes but I don't have that festive mood to go along with it... I associate this dullness with:
1) I have an assignment due straight after CNY
2) After CNY, I also have major presentations and exams
3) I don't feel like it is gonna be a good year
4) I am choosing not to eat reunion dinner with my own grandmother due to Jeff's family issue and I have seeked approval from my parents. (I was told, I was actually not SUPPOSED to eat with my grandmother 'cause I have married out anyway...)
5) CNY falls with V.day and thus, no V.day for me (Jeff has already said no V.day celebration this year as it clashes with CNY, unless I want CNY flowers as my V.day bouquet.)
6) $$$$$$$ fly as I have to start giving ang baos this year


Oh what a dreadful CNY it is gonna be... :(

Blondie

Been very stressed up with studying that I turned blonde... LOLx...