New Aims...

After being married... My next few goals in life would be...
1) Get my Advanced Diploma In Oncology

2) Having my own 4-room flat home with Jeff

3) Get my promotion as a Senior SN after my Advance Diploma

Guess all the above is easier said than done. Afterall, I am not studying material and besides, I have left studying life nearly 6yrs ago. I have nearly forgotten how it was to sit in lecture theatres listening, jotting down notes, doing projects, presentations, mugging for exams and lastly doing tutorials. Wonder if I can take the amount of 'stress' that comes with being a student again...

Owning a home ain't easy. Firstly, balloting for flats is a challenge. Second-hand flats are not an option as Jeff is worried about 'history' of the flat, which owners may not say. Reasonable. So we are like applying through HDB whenever they have any balloting BTO flats. Waiting for replies. If we get selected to go down HDB to choose our 'ideal' unit, it would also be a difficult choice as the 'ideal' choices left, may not as be our 'ideal' unit. Ok, after the selection, it would be a 3 year wait until we may personally own the flat, then comes the renovation fees and furnishing cost... Another huge bomb, bigger than the one we spend on our wedding. LOLx.

China woman is said to be returning soon. So there goes my peace and tranquility in my in-laws' place. But somehow, I am glad I had these past 2 months to re-build the bond with my in-laws and to care for my mum in-law during the times when she felt helpless. It is also said that brother in-law and that China woman would be getting their own 3-room flat (as they can only afford a 3-room for now) soon. But how soon is soon? I don't quite know either. Afterall, the China woman ain't and hasn't been working, has no CPF and isn't from a exactly rich family, thus, all the expenses would be heavily dependable on my brother in-law and he ain't some rich guy anyway. Hopefully, when she is back from China, she would be able to find herself a proper job to sustain her own household, hand in hand with her husband and not furthur burden on him or his family (which now includes me)... Spoilt bitch!

Anyway, one step at the time, take whatever I can take. Guess, this blog would be my place of ranting at any time I can't take whatever is thrown at me...