Where Have All The Truly Nice Guys Gone???

My heartfelt cries goes out to Vanessa... She must be upset deep down in her heart with regards to what happened recrently or should I say final episode of yesterday. Heartbreaking.

He didn't seem to be that sort of guy when I met him before twice. Neither did anyone of them showed signs of relationship distress. Vanessa never did once talk about these problems before and suddenly she tells me all the flaws of him. They were like this ideal love birds, twittering in love, embracing each other and getting touchy over each other. I was envious of her. But what hidden was an ungentlemenly, MCP attitude and a girlfriend too matured for him.

If he wasn't ready to commit, why bother to even court my dearest friend?
If he wasn't ready for a mature relationship, why does he even want to go for older women?
If he was looking for a 2nd mother to lay down on, I would rather him go fly kite!

Anyways, guess looks can be decieving, actions can also be rather decieving... Happy couples on outside not necessarily mean both parties are truly happy on the inside. My once envy for her has now turned to heart felt sadness for her. I know she is the stronger among us 'sisters' but she too is a woman- a woman who had been just disappointed and betrayed in love.

May my both 'sisters' find themselves the right guy and a guy man enough to love them, treasure them, cherish them and commit to them whole-heartedly to make me envy them once again.

Although, my marriage life is not difference from my pre-marital life, I am satisfied and content. May God bless my 'sisters' and I to find happiness in love one day.

喜欢两个人

没必要回想刚刚下大雨的黄昏
此刻夜空只有美丽的星辰
走过了甜酸各一半的旅程
我单薄的心才能变得丰盛
心会累爱会冷
这是感情必经的过程
只是有人就放弃
也有人愿意再等
等一个发现等一个感动让爱再沸腾
就算很在乎自尊
我们依赖彼此不得不承认
放弃自由喜欢两个人
绑住的两个人
互不相让还是相爱分享一生
不爱热闹喜欢两个人
就我们两个人
在腐不安世界里找到安稳

有时候关心就是交换一个眼神
抚慰就是暖暖紧紧的拥吻
疼爱是不讲理也让我几分
体贴是偶而准你不像情人
心会累爱会冷
这是感情必经的过程
只是有人就放弃
也有人愿意再等
等一个发现等一个感动让爱再沸腾
就算很在乎自尊
我们依赖彼此不得不承认
放弃自由喜欢两个人
绑住的两个人
互不相让还是相爱分享一生
不爱热闹喜欢两个人
就我们两个人
在腐不安世界里找到安稳

在不安世界里找到安稳

My First & Last Louis Vuitton Bag

NDP Tickets

Collected my NDP tickets today. It is my Father's Day present for my dad... :) Although it is kind of F.O.C, it is still something that he is very excited to watch. For the past few years, he has been bugging me asking how to win NDP tickets, thus, this year, I finally won 2 tickets and so he can go watch it with my mum. Somemore, it is the actual day tickets! I am so lucky!

If...

If I had given you a second chance, would you treasure it?
If I told you that I waited for you, would you believe me?
If I invited you to my wedding, would you attend?
If I told you I was getting married, would you care?
If I asked you how are you getting along in life, would you say the truth?
If I said I am happily married, would you be happy for me too?

You said you didn't want us to contact anymore 'cause it is a sad ending to our relationship. But you didn't even give me a second chance to reconcile.
You kept me waiting aimlessly. Although, you did show your jealousy years ago but you never said a word when asked.
Now I that I know that you are happy somewhere out there, I am happy for you and hope you are happy for me too...

Collection Of Wedding Pictures

Went down to collect my wedding day pictures. Love them... Love the way the photographer managed to capture nearly every single fun moment of my wedding day. The few nice candid shots were great also!

15th June 2009

Although I don't know and don't wish to know how you are doing or where you are right now in life... Happy Birthday!

I Dreamed A Dream

There was a time when men were kind,
And their voices were soft,
And their words inviting.
There was a time when love was blind,
And the world was a song,
And the song was exciting.
There was a time when it all went wrong...

I dreamed a dream in time gone by,
When hope was high and life, worth living.
I dreamed that love would never die,
I dreamed that God would be forgiving.
Then I was young and unafraid,
And dreams were made and used and wasted.
There was no ransom to be paid,
No song unsung, no wine, untasted.

But the tigers come at night,
With their voices soft as thunder,
As they tear your hope apart,
And they turn your dream to shame.

He slept a summer by my side,
He filled my days with endless wonder...
He took my childhood in his stride,
But he was gone when autumn came!

And still I dream he'll come to me,
That we will live the years together,
But there are dreams that cannot be,
And there are storms we cannot weather!

I had a dream my life would be
So different from this hell I'm living,
So different now from what it seemed...
Now life has killed the dream I dreamed...

Depression

SINGAPORE: Over 60,000 civil servants in Singapore will not be getting any mid—year annual variable component this year. The Public Service Division said this is due to the uncertain economic outlook.

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The Ministry of Trade and Industry has maintained its GDP growth forecast for this year at minus six to minus nine per cent.

The decision not to pay any mid—year bonus is also in line with the National Wages Council recommendations released on Wednesday.

The annual variable component is an aspect in the flexible wage structure that is adjusted to reflect economic conditions.

The decision of not having a mid—year payment for civil servants, together with cuts made previously, will see annual civil service salaries this year drop by six per cent to 21 per cent compared to 2008. Those in senior positions will receive the largest reduction.

Singapore’s labour movement said many private sector employees have already been affected by cost—cutting measures like pay cuts and wage freeze.

The government’s latest decision not to pay any mid—year bonus will align the public sector with what is already practised in the private sector during these difficult times.

In a statement, the labour movement and its eight unions affiliated to the civil service said they support the government’s decision.

NTUC’s Deputy Secretary General, Halimah Yacob, said public sector employees understand that during such challenging times, it will not be possible for them to insist on being paid the mid—year bonus.

As for the year—end bonus for civil servants, the government said it will decide on this when Singapore’s economic performance in the second half of the year is clearer.

G Muthukumarasamy, general secretary, Amalgamated Union of Public Daily Rated Workers (AUPDRW), said: "AUPDRW understands that the current economic downturn has affected countries worldwide and Singapore is facing an unprecedented recession.

"AUPDRW therefore supports the decision of zero mid—year payment. I am sure that our members and workers understand the challenging economic situation that we are in and the need for a cautious approach to be taken in view of an unstable and unpredictable global economic situation.

"In fact, we are grateful that there has been no retrenchment and pay cut in the public sector, as compared to the private sector employees.

"With everyone taking the necessary steps during a downturn, we believe that when the economy recovers, we will be able to bounce back faster, and our workers will be recognised and appreciated for their contributions and efforts." — CNA/vm


No bonus means no extra money for Great Singapore Sale...
No bonus means nothing to look forward to this June...
No bonus means all the efforts done for the past year is in vain...
No bonus means an 'A' in appraisal is also worthless...
So sad...