Sprained Ankle AGAIN!

One day post DND and I sprained my ankle badly while buying lunch for my husband. Haiz...

KKH DND

Had my company's annual DND this evening and of all days, I had to have a stiff neck as well as my menses had to come. Damn't ***t! I also don't know how I got a stiff neck as I had woke up total fine. It was after attending someone's church wedding and while eating lunch then did I feel the tension of my scapula muscles slowly 'spreading' to the left side of my neck. Soon, my neck cannot even bend or flex otherwise there would be this pain radiating from the neck muscles. Even after stretching exercises, the stiff neck didn't improve a wee bit, in fact, it got worst. Sian! Of all days, I had to have this stiff neck.
Anyway, the DND ended well but making very pai seh... First, my name was announced repeatedly as I had lost my DND entry pass, which contains the number to the lucky draw, so the DeeJay had to find its owner (which was me). Then, they played KKH's 150 years anniversary video which a portion of it shown me administering an injection to a patient. That was when those who knew me started 'shouting' my name, making me more embarrassed...
Hopefully, my stiff neck will go away tomorrow and not bug me anymore...

Sweetest Memory...

To Jeff:
Will you, __________________ take this woman ______________ to be your wedded wife, to live together in the legal estate of matrimony? Will you love her, comfort her, honour and keep her in sickness and in health and forsaking all others, be faithful to her, so long as you both shall live?
Answer: I do.

To Me:
Will you, _________________ take this man _________________ to be your wedded husband, to live together in the legal estate of matrimony? Will you love him, comfort him, honour and keep him in sickness and in health and forsaking all others, be faithful to him, so long as you both shall live?
Answer: I do.

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Love is never about money. Love is never binding. Love is never about ourselves. Love is placing the person we love before ourselves, just like how we love ourselves.

What Is Jealousy???

Definition 1:
Jealousy is about real or imagined fears--fear of abandonment, fear of loss of love, fear of being dishonored in the relationship, fear of being shamed in the community, unresolved issues from past relationships, lack issues, poor self esteem, cover or mask for things from the past that you haven't healed yet, vindictive or a desire for revenge that is misguided or misdirected toward someone else.

When jealous feelings come up, it's usually because we're afraid that we won't get our needs of one kind or another met. It's been our experience that when jealousy comes up, somewhere within us, we are crying out for help.

Jealousy usually seems to result from a couple of different scenarios:

There is "proof" or at least a strong suspicion that agreements and commitments between two people have actually been broken by one of them or …

It shows up when one person or both people in the relationship are very insecure in their relationship or in life. Jealous feelings come up with a partner, or others, whose actions haven't warranted it.

Definition 2:
Jealousy is a "complex reaction" because it involves such a wide range of emotions, thoughts and behaviours.

Emotions - pain, anger, rage, sadness, envy, fear, grief, humiliation.
Thoughts - resentment, blame, comparison with the rival, worry about image, self-pity.
Behaviours - feeling faint, trembling and sweating, constant questioning and seeking reassurance, aggressive actions, even violence.



However, I am defined as immatured and childish when I am plagued with jealousy. I was even told that I don't have the rights to be jealous... Crap!

She's Back

The newly weds are back from their 'honeymoon' and back to ruin my life, my mood and my psychological well being.

Although I haven't met the PRC woman the whole day today but seems like she hasn't learn not be so loud when she is speaking. She is still the same old woman with 'exaggerated' movements and barbaric in her actions as to bang doors or speaking loudly. Anyway, she has not touch on my raw nerve yet. As long she don't irritate me and I wouldn't irritate her. She don't step on my tail and I will leave alone.

However, with her new found status, I would be looking forward to a drama filled life for my in laws... I would think she is now very proud that she has gained what she initially came to Singapore for... PR and marriage to a Singaporean man to 'conquer' his wealth and to flaunt her luckiness to have found a Singaporean man to marry her.

Wedding Photography A Sucess

Praise God for the fine and beautiful weather He had provided for my outdoor photoshoots. I was very worried that the weather would be unfavourable for the outdoor shoot as it was raining heavily in the afternoons for the past few days. However, Thank God for answering my prayers for good weather.

We went to a church, Alexander area and lastly Sentosa for the photoshoot. Managed to catch the sunset background that I had always wished for.

Now gottta wait for at least a month before the photos are out and we can only choose 30 pictures out the 200+ shots that was taken today...

On Leave 4 My Photo Shoot

Plans for tomorrow:
1) Facial
2) Eye brow shaping
3) Upper lip waxing
4) Manicure
5) Deposit my coins

Quite excited for my photo shoot this Friday. Praying hard that the weather would be good for my outdoor shoot...

Behind A Clean House Is A Woman

Yes, as the title suggests, this is a fact that I have learnt. Why?

1) My own parents' house is kept clean by my mum and if my mum ain't around, the house would be a in big mess... Clothes unwashed, floor un-vacuumed, toilets un-scrubed and rooms in a mess.

2) My mum in law has gone to China from 25 Sept to 7 Oct 2008 and has left the house indirectly in my care. Thus, I have been doing the housework every now and then. This weekend, I went by my own place to stay and when I come back to the house of:
- plates left in the basin unwashed
- floor is full of hair + dust
-toilet un-scrubed
- worn 'dried' sweat drenched clothes + socks are thrown on the floor awaiting to be washed
- hamster cage uncleaned
- kitchen table are dirty with coffee stain, chilli sauce stain and unfinished food left opened
- rubbish bin plastic bag filled with rubbish, waiting to be thrown into the rubbish chute
Obviously, I had to do the cleaning up and nagged to no results... Haiz, hopefully someone could understand and sympathize with me.

3) When my husband and I had a cold war for the 2 weeks, I came back to a messy room and stinky room. His books + clothes sprawled all over the room, underwear left on the dusty + 'hairy' floor, bed-sheet unchanged and this musky smell when you enter the room.

Thus, from these 3 real-life examples I have coded above, I am all ready to come up with this conclusion that behind every clean and tidy house, is a woman who is willing to pick up the mess, clean the place and just keep all these 'frustration' of weekly cleaning to herself and under her breath cursing while cleaning up.