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Fast Moving

My brother in law brought a female home tonight! So exciting and I am happy for him. Happy that he has moved on...

Although he claimes that this female is just a colleague of his, but, you don't invite colleagues into your room and share childhood photo album of your brother and you. Moreover, you don't start giggling and laughing with the girl over the childhood pictures....

Anyway, this girl looks like in her early 30s and the way she dresses 'feels' like a malaysian. Didn't get to talk to her but only glanced at her a few times, while she was sitting in my bro-in law's room, on his bed flipping the album with him by her side.

Hopefully, it works out and it is nice to see him find himself another girlfriend to start a new relationship. Whether the 'ba zi' of the female and me does collide or not will be known... Until I get to know her better and when she visits more often in future, den we shall see...

:P

CNY Movie Marathon

This year's CNY was a great time to catch up with movies and spend some time with my husband... We had like a daily movie marathon!

CNY evening: The Rite (Nice!)

CNY Day 1: Black Swan (Dark show but interesting and real)

CNY Day 2: Home-coming (Heart-warming), Shaolin (Not bad also) and The Resident (Puts you in second thoughts of staying alone in apartment surrounded with strangers)

CNY Day 3: Triangle (Dumb show)

Next few shows that I want to catch soon in February are 'No Strings Attached', 'The Chaperon' and 'Just Go With It'.

S-N-A-G Era?

Was doing my CNY visiting and when I realized that my cousin and his girlfriend or should I say fiancee was not around, I curiously approached my aunt (which is his mum) and asked how come this year my cousin and the fiancee didn't turn up for visitations. My aunt told me that they have broke off as the girl has found someone new and left my cousin. I was shocked and asked what happened exactly and what about the flat they had bought shortly after me, which is still under construction. My aunt then told me that the both of them, who never ever did have an argument before in their few years of relationship, suddenly had a major big argument and they called off the engagement and broke up. The girl then found someone else and refused to give my cousin another chance. My cousin now depressed, has decided to not attend any CNY visitations to relatives' house. He rather stay home alone and play his game to vent his frustrations and sadness. My next concern was for the downpayment of at least 20k. My aunt said she had no idea as my cousin refused to tell her more information on the payment and stuff... In fact, he has refused to speak about the break up in detail with her also...

This scenario of break up, depressed, escaping from relatives and CNY visitation has reminded me of my brother in law's situation. He didn't even eat reunion dinner with the family and went off to Genting for the long weekend and only came back today. He left for Genting on CNY evening before reunion dinner and claimed he was rushing off. My poor parents in law had to gave in to him and allowed him to go off without the traditional reunion dinner with the family.

I was wondering is this now the 'sensitive new-age guy' that people often talk about. The girl left them heartbroken and they choose to sink into depression, avoiding relatives even in such a traditional joyous occasion, leaving their own parents to explain for their absence and answering relatives on their behalf...

I wonder if I ever do leave my husband, would he be so 痴情 also? Would be as depressed as his brother or like my cousin? Would he even bother to initiate reconciliation with me?

Anyway, this year isn't a good year for me and my marriage... So I have to safe-guard it and try to prevent any misunderstandings or miscommunications... Haiz... God bless!

Happy Lunar New Year

Here's wishing all my blog readers, faithful or passer-by, a Happy Lunar Rabbit Year 2011...

I'm enjoying 6 days off from work from 1/2/11 until next 7/2/11...

Year of Rabbit Forecast For The Pig

Pig – 猪
The Pig is an innocent, sweet and lovable personality. They can also be quite melancholy and over-sensitive. The Pig loves the company of others, and adores parties, gossip and chit chat. They are highly intelligent, but prefer to keep this side of their nature under wraps. The Pig does not care that much for money, but is one of the zodiac signs that is very lucky.

Pig Fortune in 2011:
The Pig will have more unlucky star than lucky ones this year. You will be surrounded by people who may harm you causing disputes and spreading rumours about you. This will lead to losing your passion for your work and moody at times. Due to the unlucky star, you will be courted by controversies wherever you go, you will also suffer financial loss this year so learn to manage your wealth well. Other than being thrifty, do not work with others for business or be a guarantor. Married couples may quarrel more this year so couples should communicate more.You will suffer from poor health this year so pay attention to any symptoms of illness that may arise.

Pig Career in 2011:
The Pig will encounter alot of problems at work, rumours will be spread about you from time to time which lead to an misunderstanding from your boss or working partners. So the Pig should be more pleasant towards the surrounding people and keep a low profile. Learn to listen more and talk less to improve interpersonal relationship and do not let it be a stumbling block to your career. Do not be hasty when doing stuffs this year, execute it only after it is carefully planned and thought off to prevent any problems that may arise due to poor planning.

Pig Wealth in 2011:
Poor wealth fortune this year. The Pig must learn to be proactive, have good financial management and organize their financial expenditure carefully. Control your desire to purchase anything and do not squander your money. In fortune where your wealth fortune is strong, save some money for any difficult times you might go through in the future. It is not advisable start a business with a partner this year as it will most likely lead to no profits. Do not be a guarantor this year as you will be involved in lawsuits and financial disputes or even bankruptcy.

Pig Love in 2011:
Pig do not have much luck with the opposite sex this year. Married couples will experience some ups and downs and arguments as well as some misunderstandings. It is important to be patient to understand each other more so as to not affect the relationship. As long as you approach the situation calmly, and communicate more, unpleasant incidents can be prevented. Singles in search of a partner will encounter some difficulties. Try to take part in more gatherings and activities to enhance the opportunities for making friends.

Pig Health in 2011:
Pay more attention to eating habits this year. Avoid fried food and pay attention to any gastrointestinal discomfort you may have. Because you will be busy with your work, you will be physically and mentally tired. Watch out for traffic accidents when outdoors and you may wish to make blood donation to reduce the disasters coming your way. For the females this year, pay attention to your physiological problem, is it advised to do periodic gynecological examinations and seek timely treatment should any problem arise.

Year of Rabbit Forecast For The Goat

Goat – 羊
Graceful and optimistic, kind and easy going, would describe a Goat personality. They can also be petulant and discontented, likely to throw the towel in at the beginning of a problem. They can be charming without revealing their true feelings. The Goat is very talented and imaginative and can turn his hand to most creative pursuits.

Goat Fortune in 2011:
This year for the sheep is a mixture of good and bad luck. There will be pay and promotion opportunities at work but there will be dispute or misunderstandings cause by some people around who are out to damage you. There will be a lot of business barriers and someone might make false charge against you which will lead to lawsuit problems. Average wealth, you will also find it hard to amass your wealth, although there are profitable investments, it is better to be conservative and not be greedy. Married couples should protect their relationship and be careful of extra marital affairs. Pay more attention to safety while driving and be sure to obey traffic rules of speeding and drink driving.

Goat Career in 2011:
This year for the Sheep is a good year to expand your career. Work wise, you will gain support from your fellow colleagues, you will be able to display your leadership capabilities, your superiors will be pleased with your performance, there will be a lot of pay and promotion opportunities, you will be able to attain both fame and fortune. However, everything is fine except one small problem, this year the sheep may meet villains intrusion. Other than a war of words, you may even provoke lawsuits. You should lay low while dealing with affairs outside work, do not stick your nose into other people’s business.

Goat Wealth in 2011:
Wealth for the sheep this year is average. The main problem will be the appearance of an unlucky star causing a loss of wealth. So, for the sheep, it is best to practice self control over spending and start saving. There will be more favorable opportunities for a large profit for real estate and business investment this year. It is easy for you to be involved in a dispute over money so you should carefully read the contents of each clause before signing any important documents. In the case whereby you are involved in a lawsuit due to negligence, keep your cool and handle it with haste to avoid incurring a heavier loss.

Goat Love in 2011:
Be it for male or female, opportunities with the opposite sex will be plenty this year. Single men and women in search of a relationship in the year of the rabbit should take the initiative early to find a partner to end their singlehood status. Married couples are prone to a third party who may threaten to strain their relationship so both parties must be able to conquer the temptation and to understand that family harmony is the most important. Mutual understanding will be essential in order to avoid any problems with marriage. Couples should communicate more, happy and unhappy stuffs should be brought up in order for both party to understand each other more and for the relationship to last.

Goat Health in 2011:
There is a presence of an unlucky star in health. Physical condition of the body is not satisfactory and is susceptible to xue guang so it is not advisable to participate in any hazardous activities this year. Families with the elderly should pay more attention to their health and diet as well as guarding them against injuries. Pay more attention to safety while driving and be sure to obey traffic rules of speeding and drink driving.