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Just the blunt and honest me. Just someone who needs to air her inner most feelings and thoughts. Just a female who suffers from a crazy life journey, with lots of ups and down in her life. Just another moronic human being who wishes for peace and serenity in life one day.

Tuesday, March 30, 2010

Plagiarism

好人没好报
狗咬吕洞宾
不识好人心
好心未必会有好报


One of my classmate cum group-mates called me last Tuesday night saying that his laptop had crashed and died on him (mother-board got burnt and laptop screen had cracked). He claimed that his assignment which was due last Friday was in the laptop together with the pointers for the assignment elaboration.

On Wednesday, he didn't come to school and said he was sending his laptop for repair.
Wednesday evening, he called and asked me to let him have a look at my assignment, which I had already completed. Being nice, I emailed him the my assignment and he 'promised' not to copy my assignment. How foolish of I to trust him...

After handing in of assignment on Friday, I realized he had used on the same trick on my another group mate and he plagiarized 80% of her assignment in the main body part of the assignment and 15% of my assignment for his ending part of the assignment. The rest of the 5% of his assignment, which is the introduction was he own work. Bloody hell!

This matter has been reported to my lecturer and she said that she can't promise anything good or neutral as an outcome. She even said the 3 of us maybe even penalized for plagiarism! WTF!

This is what happens when you are compassionate and soft hearted enough to believe men! Gullible!

Monday, March 22, 2010

Enough Of Studying

After this advance diploma, I vow never to study again, 'cause it sucks! Not sure if it the school system that sucks big time or the people (classmates) that sucks, or is it that my character sucks?!

Guess it all of it! Don't want rant about it on this blog and make myself more fuming mad at everything that has happened, is happening and will happen before the course ends. Just hope that this advance diploma ends faster, get my certification and move off...

Anyway, family is not get any better. I am dad has moved to Indonesia for the time being to help his friend set-up business there, that leaves my mother and me in Singapore. For the time-being, everything is ok. It is my in laws' side that is pissing me off... The PRC woman is throwing her drama again... Si Bei Sianz... She wants to divorce yet again, this time, her reason is that my brother in law has no money to support her and that she wants to start her own business to sell clothes. She demands my brother in law to give her capital to start business, otherwise she wants a divorce. My stupid brother in law told her that if she wants a divorce, she can by all means go find a lawyer and sign the divorce paper herself but he won't sign it. Mad man! If I were him, I would sign the divorce and ask that stupid PRC women to get the FUCK out of my life and family's life, then I would file for bankruptcy so I need not have to pay her alimony or a single cent!!!!

Instead now, this PRC is irritating my in laws by calling and complaining to my in laws every now and then to pass messages to my brother in law (who is ignoring her and not picking up her calls). My poor mother in law is like getting more pissed and yet not telling that PRC off and still listens to her nonsense. CRAP!!!!

Thursday, March 11, 2010

New Toy


Introducing my new toy... cheaper than what the IT fair offers :)
A reward to myself for passing my biology paper, health assessment practical test and research critique assignment. It is also a way to encourage myself to continue my passing grades(hopefully)... :)

Friday, March 5, 2010

Back To School

After a month having attachments, it is back to school from next Monday and stress starts once again...

8 March - Physical Assessment Exams & APN assignment due (500words)

18 March - Change Management Presentation

19 March - Systematic Review Presentation

24 March - Research Report due (3000words)

26 March - Theory of Oncology Nursing Exams (x2 papers)

5~ 9 April - EXAMS (Psycho + Sociology & Management)

STRESSFUL especially when it happen to a person like me with extremely low self esteem and pessimistic personality...

Wednesday, February 24, 2010

伟大的女人

Part 1 Question:
Ladies, if your businessman husband was found cheating on you years ago (behind your back, of course), his mistress then cheated his money and ran away with another man. Now, your husband is back in Singapore and down with a rare form of cancer which slowly eats into his brain and hence he is losing his motor and speech function day by day until he dies. Would you be magnanimous enough to take him back and care for him until the day he dies?

My Answer:
I am not sure myself but I sure will be very bitter and upset for a moment when the truth of his affair surfaces and may not consider taking him back. However, now that he is sick and dying, the compassionate part of me would over-right my rational thoughts and hence, I may consider taking care of him until he dies, afterall, isn't that what is stated in the vows of marriage: in sickness and in health, I shall not forsake you.


Part 2 Question: During the period of time that you are caring for him, he is constantly ventilation his frustrations at you, ranting at you and even verbally abusing you. Not only that, he accuses you of having an affair behind his back. (Mind you, he is still very much alert and rational.) Would you now scream back at him for false accusation when he is the one who has let you down in the first place? Would now forsake him and leave him at a hospice care as an inpatient and wash your duties as a wife off to care for him?

My Answer: I may scream back at him and even dump him in a hospice inpatient care as I have low threshold for such ungratefulness. However, I may still go to the hospice to visit him but I guess by then love is no longer be present.

Monday, February 22, 2010

Congrats!


To my lost ex-close friend, Ky: Congrats! I know I am a bit late as you got ROM-ed last year Nov. Once again, congrats and may your marriage be blissful...

PS: If you ever read this post, I really am glad that you found that special one for you and stay happy 4ever. God Bless...

Saturday, February 20, 2010

Post Valentine's Day Dinner


Husband's desktop decided to crash on him and we went to Sim Lim with my dad to buy a new lappie for him... Yes, he finally owns a laptop of his own, so no more bugging me to borrow mine... *evil laugh*
Went to a HongKong Cafe down Tampines 1 for post v.day celebration dinner. No flowers this year but he got me a Aristocat pillow and Stitch blanket as present. Ok, he is forgiven for the no flowers afterall...
Dad would be leaving for Jakarta on 1 March 2010 to start his new job and won't be back until at least 6mths later (if he is successful over there), thus, mum would be alone in Singapore. He has asked me to accompany her more often. I wish I could! Not that I want to be labelled un-filial but I really can't get along with her. I can't tolerate her temper and attitude. I know she is my mum afterall but I have got my limits too. No way will I give in to her nonsense and bad-temper attitude. I have unsettled grudges with her too. I have unresolved issues to deal with too...
Haiz... just hope she will learn to be more mellowed once my dad has left her for Jakarta. Hopefully, she will see that she has no one else left except me to fend for her and hopefully she won't be so aggressive towards me...