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Fast Moving

My brother in law brought a female home tonight! So exciting and I am happy for him. Happy that he has moved on...

Although he claimes that this female is just a colleague of his, but, you don't invite colleagues into your room and share childhood photo album of your brother and you. Moreover, you don't start giggling and laughing with the girl over the childhood pictures....

Anyway, this girl looks like in her early 30s and the way she dresses 'feels' like a malaysian. Didn't get to talk to her but only glanced at her a few times, while she was sitting in my bro-in law's room, on his bed flipping the album with him by her side.

Hopefully, it works out and it is nice to see him find himself another girlfriend to start a new relationship. Whether the 'ba zi' of the female and me does collide or not will be known... Until I get to know her better and when she visits more often in future, den we shall see...

:P

CNY Movie Marathon

This year's CNY was a great time to catch up with movies and spend some time with my husband... We had like a daily movie marathon!

CNY evening: The Rite (Nice!)

CNY Day 1: Black Swan (Dark show but interesting and real)

CNY Day 2: Home-coming (Heart-warming), Shaolin (Not bad also) and The Resident (Puts you in second thoughts of staying alone in apartment surrounded with strangers)

CNY Day 3: Triangle (Dumb show)

Next few shows that I want to catch soon in February are 'No Strings Attached', 'The Chaperon' and 'Just Go With It'.

S-N-A-G Era?

Was doing my CNY visiting and when I realized that my cousin and his girlfriend or should I say fiancee was not around, I curiously approached my aunt (which is his mum) and asked how come this year my cousin and the fiancee didn't turn up for visitations. My aunt told me that they have broke off as the girl has found someone new and left my cousin. I was shocked and asked what happened exactly and what about the flat they had bought shortly after me, which is still under construction. My aunt then told me that the both of them, who never ever did have an argument before in their few years of relationship, suddenly had a major big argument and they called off the engagement and broke up. The girl then found someone else and refused to give my cousin another chance. My cousin now depressed, has decided to not attend any CNY visitations to relatives' house. He rather stay home alone and play his game to vent his frustrations and sadness. My next concern was for the downpayment of at least 20k. My aunt said she had no idea as my cousin refused to tell her more information on the payment and stuff... In fact, he has refused to speak about the break up in detail with her also...

This scenario of break up, depressed, escaping from relatives and CNY visitation has reminded me of my brother in law's situation. He didn't even eat reunion dinner with the family and went off to Genting for the long weekend and only came back today. He left for Genting on CNY evening before reunion dinner and claimed he was rushing off. My poor parents in law had to gave in to him and allowed him to go off without the traditional reunion dinner with the family.

I was wondering is this now the 'sensitive new-age guy' that people often talk about. The girl left them heartbroken and they choose to sink into depression, avoiding relatives even in such a traditional joyous occasion, leaving their own parents to explain for their absence and answering relatives on their behalf...

I wonder if I ever do leave my husband, would he be so 痴情 also? Would be as depressed as his brother or like my cousin? Would he even bother to initiate reconciliation with me?

Anyway, this year isn't a good year for me and my marriage... So I have to safe-guard it and try to prevent any misunderstandings or miscommunications... Haiz... God bless!

Happy Lunar New Year

Here's wishing all my blog readers, faithful or passer-by, a Happy Lunar Rabbit Year 2011...

I'm enjoying 6 days off from work from 1/2/11 until next 7/2/11...